Poetry Friday: Hayden Carruth, "I Could Take"

Last week I mentioned Wendell Berry's poetic tribute to Hayden Carruth, so this week I'm sharing some Carruth poetics. This one's for Atticus, because we are indeed "two imperfections that match." 

I Could Take
by Hayden Carruth

I could take
two leaves
    and give you one.
Would that not be
a kind of perfection?

But I prefer
one leaf
    torn to give you half
            showing

(after these years, simply)

....

(Read the last few lines here.) 

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The Poetry Friday round-up this week is being hosted by 

Buffy Silverman. 

Photo thanks to Nika Akin, Pixabay. 

Poetry Friday: I'm Hosting!

This poem by Wendell Berry perfectly describes the way I feel when I read Wendell Berry, which is apparently the same way Wendell Berry feels when he reads Hayden Carruth. 

Who is your Berry, your Carruth? Oh, so many I could name! But that's a list (or possibly a list poem) for another time. For now, enjoy this perfect little piece. 

To Hayden Carruth
by Wendell Berry

Dear Hayden, when I read your book I was aching

in head, back, heart, and mind, and aching

with your aches added to my own, and yet for joy

I read on without stopping, made eager

by your true mastery, wit, sorrow, and joy,

each made true by the others. My reading done,

....

(Read the rest here.) 

ETA: Here's the list of the poets you've mentioned so far: 

Nancy Willard

John O'Donohue  

Naomi Shihab Nye  

Shakespeare

Emily Dickinson  

Mary Oliver

e.e. cummings

Billy Collins

Khalil Gibran 

Rumi

J. Patrick Lewis

Joyce Sidman

Jane Kenyon

Irene Latham

Amy Ludwig VanDerwater

Marilyn Singer

Rebecca Kai Dotlich

Ursula K. LeGuin

Denise Levertov 

Margaret Atwood 

Ted Kooser 

Ada Limon 

Robert Frost 

Janet Wong 

Paul Janezcko

Gerard Manley Hopkins and 

Ross Gay

Aimee Nezhukumatathil 

Jubi Arriola-Headley

Patricia Smith

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Mr. Linky is rounding up this week's contributions for us. 

Drop your link, visit your friends, and share your "mastery, wit, sorrow, and joy, 

each made true by the others." 

Happy Poetry Friday! 

Photo courtesy of Pixabay. 

Poetry Friday: Anne-with-an-e got married!

The bride at age ten. 

We haven't had a wedding in the family since the pandemic, when our beautiful "Betsy Ray" (Lizzy) got married. That was a magical weekend and it was time for another. Now our eldest daughter, "Anne-with-an-e" (Emily) has tied the knot too. 

We didn't have to wear masks for the dress shopping this time: 

This one was a top choice from the first try-on
last autumn (though she did go with a different veil.) 

In the weeks leading up to the wedding, our beautiful Ramona Quimby (Katy) was busy with a delightful community theater production in which she played three roles: 

She and I both thought we were struggling with terrible tree pollen allergies the whole week before her opening night (and maybe that's what it was?) but she persevered through all four performances without a single cough onstage. Brava! Brava!  👏👏👏  The show must go on, and it did! (This once-upon-a-time  theater major was beyond proud.) 

I can't say that I, as a four-time-attending audience member, was able to stifle as many coughs as Katy did. To my fellow attendees, I'm so sorry. I went through multiple cough drops that Saturday night. Yes, that was me. 

Meanwhile, back at Wedding Planning Central, that show was also going on: 

The wedding day was a few days after Katy's play wrapped. Emily and Rich planned just about everything in the months leading up to their big day and we pitched in wherever/whenever/as needed. 

We played around with making table decorations for the reception: 

                                                                                            

          

Katy shopped for the Jenga-style blocks they wanted to use as their guest book and made the sign:

      

Katy and I also handled the gluten-free/dairy-free cupcakes: 

    

And everything else is a blur. (Thanks, tree-pollen-turned-bronchitis.) 

Over the wedding weekend, several people asked how I was doing and I kept saying, "I'm fine, I'm upright — like a shark, or Dori — just keep swimming." I didn't give in to Atticus's plea to check in with the doctor until the Tuesday after the wedding but none of that matters now, because the day was all about these two gloriously happy people: 

It was a beautiful day for two beautiful people. A gorgeous wedding, a joyous reception, and the next step in the story of Emily and Richard. 

And speaking of stories, just one more thing to add: 

while on their honeymoon, my Anne-with-an-e had the chance to hug Ramona Quimby in Portland: 

Maybe Anne-with-an-e and her husband's next trip will be to Prince Edward Island? 

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I almost forgot: it's Poetry Friday! Time to reshare the poem I shared after Lizzy's wedding. 

For a Daughter Who Leaves

by Janice Mirikitani 

More than gems in my comb box shaped by the

God of the Sea, I prize you, my daughter. . .

 ~ Lady Otomo, 8th century, Japan

A woman weaves 

her daughter's wedding 

slippers that will carry 

her steps into a new life. 

... 

[Skipping to the end of the poem again, but do read the whole thing. It's short and enormously moving.] 

... 

Now she captures all eyes 

with her hair combed smooth 

and her hips gently 

swaying like bamboo. 

The woman

spins her thread 

from the spool of her heart, 

knotted to her daughter's 

departing

wedding slippers.

(Read the whole poem here, at Poets.org.) 

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Michelle Kogan is hosting the Poetry Friday round-up this week. Be sure to visit her for loads of poetic goodness. 

P.S. If you're new to my blog, a quick explanation: 

Anne-with-an-e, Betsy Ray, and Ramona were the "blog names" I gave my (then-very-young) kids when I first started blogging ALMOST TWENTY YEARS AGO. 

Poetry Friday: "I Am From"

I'm still bouncing back here, so next week I'll have the whole account of a recent joyful event in our lives. The last time I reported on something like this was in 2021. (Subtle, eh?) 

Ramona Behnke has the round-up this week and she's playing with Georgia Ella Lyon's "Where I'm From" form so I'm tossing in a couple of my own incarnations of the form. 

Happy Poetry Friday, and be sure to visit Ramona for the round-up at Pleasures from the Page. 

I Am From

Karen Edmisten 

I am from knee socks, Hostess cupcakes, and patent leather Mary Janes worn home from the store. From hollyhock dolls*, dandelion bouquets, and lightning bugs in the backyard at dusk. 

I am from Santa Claus, the Easter bunny, and a squishy pillow at the drive-in, a six-year-old’s safety in the cocoon of a dark car.

I am from “I’m rubber, you’re glue,” and “Nuh-uh is not a word, Karen.” (“Nuh-uh,” I’d retort, “I can make it a word if I want to.”) 

I am from Alaskan glaciers, the sunrise on the Florida coast, road trips, and airplanes. I am from everywhere and nowhere, the child of a pilot and his bride.

I am from Air Force brats bonding through a shared, strange life, from always being the new kid in school, from learning how cruel and how kind children can be. 

I am from laughing with my sister so hard it makes my stomach hurt. 

I am from the shock of having life turned inside out and upside down, from learning that sometimes things must be torn down before they can be rebuilt. 

I am from celebrating rebuilding, from being remade again and again. 

I am from Tom, I am from Emily, Lizzy, and Kate. I am from five other babies I never met (but who I feel cheering me on daily.) 

I am from bewilderment at the concept that marriage and motherhood could make me happy.

I am from that happiness. 

I am from my discovery of home education. 

I am from Anne-with-an-e, Betsy-Tacy, and Ramona Quimby. From George Eliot, Madeleine L’Engle, and Rumer Godden, from Wendell Berry, F. Scott Fitzgerald, Richard Wilbur, Louisa May Alcott, Anne Tyler, and Nora Ephron. I am from endless authors and perennial poets, from read-alouds, and verse, and from the joy of the book log. 

I am from the simplest pleasures: dark chocolate, steaming coffee, walking, friends, talking, iced coffee, theater, autumn and spring, and letters. Still letters. 

I am from words, paper, typewriters, desktops, laptops, manuscripts, books, and the Oxford comma. 

I am from nomads, from possibilities, from imagination.

I am from a longing for roots, found finally in the knowledge that this earth is not a nomad's home. 

And here's another past version: 

I Am From

I am from knee socks, Hostess cupcakes

and black patent leather shoes worn home from the store.

I am from coast to coast, from everywhere and nowhere,

the child of a pilot and his bride. I am from base housing,

plain vanilla walls and Barbie clothes sewn from Thailand’s silk.

I am from holly hock dolls and walking to school,

from dandelion bouquets, from Alaskan glaciers and the sun

rising over the Atlantic on a Florida coast.

I am from summer car trips to Grandma and Grandpa's,

with stops to see Lookout Mountain and the Truman Museum

along the way.

I am from staid New England stock, from Indiana folks,

from John and Norma, Madeline and Jim.

I am from lightning bugs in the backyard

and the comforting scent of Grandma's Noxzema.

I am from “Be polite” and “Do your best,”

and “Goodnight, John-boy” at bedtime,

from “I’m rubber, you’re glue,”

and from “Nuh-uh is not a word.”

I am from my squishy pillow at the drive-in,

from a six-year-old’s delight in the

dark, safe cocoon of the family car.

I am from Santa Claus and Easter eggs, dinnertime grace,

and from bedtime prayers that faded away.

I am from Germany and Wales, from homecooked meals,

decorated doll cakes** on my birthday,

and home-sewn clothes

that made me proud of my mother’s skill.

From Grandma, who thought I loved peas

because I gobbled them up (just to get rid of them),

and from Grandpa, who convinced me

that a signal tower was his own private Christmas tree.

I am from my grandmother’s habit of smearing butter

on a scraped knee, and taking me to “the grocery”

no matter what store it was.

I am from Mom, who decorated the house for every holiday,

and took us blueberry hunting by the creek;

from Dad, who told me that thunder

was the giants bowling in the sky,

and whose hand holding mine is the only thing I remember seeing

when he returned from a year in Korea.

I am from Air Force brats bonding through a shared, strange life,

from a family who taught me without words that "skin color" 

meant nothing and “human being” meant everything.

I am from nomads, from possibilities and from imagination.

I am from a longing for roots, found finally, and only, in God.

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  * Hollyhock dolls

** Barbie doll cake (My mom made the best cakes!) 

Poetry Friday: "The Bookstall" by Linda Pastan

We've been so busy here! And now I've got bronchitis, so I'm too tired to be interesting. I plan to fill you in on everything next week, but for now I'm dropping this glorious Linda Pastan poem about books. ❤️ 

The Bookstall
by Linda Pastan

Just looking at them
I grow greedy, as if they were
freshly baked loaves
waiting on their shelves
to be broken open—that one
and that—and I make my choice
in a mood of exalted luck,
browsing among them
like a cow in sweetest pasture.

....

(Read the rest here.) 

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The Poetry Friday round-up this week is hosted by Sarah Grace Tuttle. 

Photo courtesy of Engin Akyurt at Pixabay. 

Poetry Friday: "Be Kind" by Michael Blumenthal (and a story about peanut butter toast)

Sometimes it's hard to feel kind these days. But I keep reminding myself that even in our tumultuous country and climate, kindness is worth holding onto. 

I remember when Atticus was in the hospital a few years ago for his cancer surgery. A couple of days after the surgery, I ordered his breakfast. A few minutes later, the kitchen called his room. 

"You ordered the peanut butter toast for your husband, right?" She sounded young. And kind. 

"Yes, that's right." 

"Okay, I wanted to ask you a question. Does he like the peanut butter on the side, to put on the toast later? Or does he like it on the toast right away? Because, you know, some people like the peanut butter to get all melty, and I just want to make sure it's the way he likes it." 

I had to sit down. "He likes the peanut butter melty," I said. I took a breath. "He, um — thank you. Thank you for thinking of that." 

"Oh, it's no problem! Like I said, I just wanna make sure I fix it the way he likes it!" I could hear her smile. 

I hung up. I looked at the phone. I looked at my husband. He was asleep, recovering, moving forward one step at a time. I thought about a young woman in the kitchen, just doing her job, but doing it to perfection. Caring enough about a stranger to pick up the phone and ask about toast. 

There are such people in the world. Oh, such people!

The Peanut Butter Toast Girl, who still makes me cry.

Be Kind

by Michael Blumenthal

Not merely because Henry James said
there were but four rules of life—
be kind be kind be kind be kind—but
because it's good for the soul, and,
what's more, for others, it may be
that kindness is our best audition
for a worthier world, and, despite
the vagueness and uncertainty of
its recompense, a bird may yet wander
into a bush before our very houses,

....

(Read the rest here, at Poets.org.)

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Heidi Mordhorst has the Poetry Friday round-up this week at My Juicy Little Universe. 

Photo courtesy of Shutterbug75 at Pixabay. 

Poetry Friday: "Ode to Chocolate" by Barbara Crooker

Each morning, before I let in emails, peek at texts, hold my breath for the news, or face the general insanity of our current world, I let in poetry. 

Sip of black coffee, a poem. Another sip, and another. Two more poems. I sip my way through a collection, savoring, rereading, soaking in language, reflection, truth. Poems steep me in laughter, angst, recognition, melancholy, nostalgia, determination, resolve, appreciation. Humanity. 

Through poetry, I am steeped in humanity. 

I just finished Naomi Shihab Nye's Grace Notes and now I'm revisiting Barbara Crooker's Some Glad Morning. It's packed with goodness, so do buy it. (It's National Poetry Month — buy all the poetry you can.) The poem I'm sharing today isn't in this particular collection but odes to chocolate are evergreen, universal, and as necessary as air. ("Ode to Chocolate" appears in Crooker's book More.) Swoon with me, won't you? 

Ode to Chocolate
by Barbara Crooker

I hate milk chocolate, don't want clouds
of cream diluting the dark night sky,
don't want pralines or raisins, rubble
in this smooth plateau. I like my coffee
black, my beer from Germany, wine
from Burgundy, the darker, the better.
I like my heroes complicated and brooding,

....

(Read the rest here.) 

You might also like this conversation between Crooker and Elizabeth Berg, from 2021: 

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The Poetry Friday round-up this week is hosted by Irene Latham at Live Your Poem. 

Photo courtesy of StockSnap at Pixabay. 

Poetry Friday: "On Gathering Artists" by Alberto Ríos

It's National Poetry Month! 

Fittingly, Alberto Rios is gathering artists: 

On Gathering Artists
Alberto Ríos

Who does a job well, and very well—
These are the artists, those curious
Lights.


We are cobblers of the song
And barkers of the carnival word,
We are tailors of the light
And framers of the earth.
We fish among the elements
And hunt the elusive green in gray and blue.
We drink forbidden waters
And eat an invisible food.
In this time of electronic-mail and facsimile
Conversation, we send as our voice
The poem, the bridge, the circuit, the cure

Whose electricity is made from dreams,

....

(Read the rest here, at Poets.org and more about Alberto Rios here.) 

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National Poetry Month "Did you know?" stuff: 

• You can find out more about NPM here. 

• April 10 is Poem in Your Pocket Day. 

• If you haven't already, find the National Poetry Month poster here and consider a donation to the Academy of American Poets to send the poster to more classrooms and libraries. 

• Did you know there is a Poetry Foundation Library in Chicago? 

• Jama Rattigan, picture book author and blogger extraordinaire, has a round-up of all the National Poetry Month goings-on in the kidlitosphere. 

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Matt Forrest Essenwine has this week's Poetry Friday round up at Radio, Rhythm & Rhyme. 

Poetry Friday: "Notes on the Art of Poetry" by Dylan Thomas

My mom passed away a year ago today. Oh, how she loved to read! One of the greatest gifts she gave her children was a love of books. I don't know if I ever gave her these words from Dylan Thomas, but it's never too late. I'm giving them to her today. 

This is from the preface to The Poems of Dylan Thomas — an essay called "Notes on the Art of Poetry." The "poem" is often found online in an edited form, but it originated in Thomas's response to a college student who, in 1951, asked him five questions about poetry: 

"My first, and greatest, liberty was that of being able to read everything and anything I cared to. I read indiscriminately, and with my eyes hanging out. I could never have dreamt that there were such goings-on in the world between the covers of books, such sandstorms and ice blasts of words, such slashing of humbug, and humbug, too, such staggering peace, such enormous laughter, such and so many blinding bright lights breaking across the just-awaking wits and splashing all over the pages in a million bits and pieces all of which were words, words, words, and each of which was alive forever in its own delight and glory and oddity and light."

And here's a lovely clip, that I think my mom would love, of Sean Bean reading the shortened version: 

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Join Marcie Flinchum Atkins for the Poetry Friday round-up this week, and for plenty of other bookish and poetical news. 

Photo courtesy of EliFrancis at Pixabay. 

Poetry Friday: "Spring (Again)"

One of my favorite very-very-short poems about spring: 

Spring (Again)
by Michael Ryan

The birds were louder this morning,

raucous, oblivious, tweeting their teensy bird-brains out.
....

(Read all five lines here, at Poets.org. The final line is perfection.)

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Rose Cappelli at Imagine the Possibilities

is hosting a very spring-y Poetry Friday round-up this week.

Photo courtesy of kidmoses at Pixabay. 

Poetry Friday: "An Interruption" by Robert S. Foote

Continuing last week's theme of empathy and kindness: 

An Interruption
by Robert S. Foote


A boy had stopped his car
To save a turtle in the road;
I was not far
Behind, and slowed,
And stopped to watch as he began
To shoo it off into the undergrowth—

This wild reminder of an ancient past,
Lumbering to some Late Triassic bog,
Till it was just a rustle in the grass,

....

(Read the rest here.) 

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Kind and wonderful Janice Scully is hosting the Poetry Friday round-up this week at Salt City Verse. 

Photo thanks to giorgos250 at Pixabay. 

Poetry Friday: "Kindness" by Naomi Shihab Nye

Empathy is not a weakness.

Empathy is never weakness. 

Empathy for other human beings is the heart, mind, and soul of genuine strength and leadership. 

Make America empathetic again. 

Kindness 

by Naomi Shihab Nye 

Before you know what kindness really is

you must lose things,

feel the future dissolve in a moment

like salt in a weakened broth.

What you held in your hand,

what you counted and carefully saved,

all this must go so you know

how desolate the landscape can be

between the regions of kindness.

....

(Read the rest here, at Poets.org.)

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The lovely and kind Margaret Simon is hosting the Poetry Friday round-up this week. 

Poetry Friday: "A New Poet"

This month's challenge to and for the Poetry Peeps was to write  "____ is A Word Poems" (a wordplay exercise created by poet Nikki Grimes and shared here by Michelle Barnes.) 

I didn't have time to rise to the challenge, but I'm sharing a poem about meeting new poets, which is one of the things I love about Poetry Friday.

Denise Krebs at Dare to Care is hosting the Poetry Friday round-up this week, and she's daring to care about the state of our country and some rapidly vanishing liberties. Thank you, Denise. 

A New Poet 

by Linda Pastan 

Finding a new poet
is like finding a new wildflower
out in the woods. You don't see

its name in the flower books, and
nobody you tell believes
in its odd color or the way

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(Read the rest here, at Library of Congress/Poetry 180.) 

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Photo thanks to Hazi54, Pixabay

Poetry Friday: "300 Goats" by Naomi Shihab Nye

I wanted to share this one by Naomi Shihab Nye for a few reasons: 

• It's Naomi Shihab Nye. 
• It's about goats. I've always liked goats, and now they make me think about Severance, and I'm obsessed with Severance. 
• It's Naomi Shihab Nye. 

So. Poetry. Goats. Severance. 

You're welcome. 

300 Goats
by Naomi Shihab Nye

In icy fields.
Is water flowing in the tank?
Will they huddle together, warm bodies pressing?
(Is it the year of the goat or the sheep?

....

(Read the rest of this short, delightful poem here, and you can listen to the poet reading it here.) 

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The Poetry Friday round-up this week is being hosted by Laura Purdie Salas. 

Photo thanks to RitaE at Pixabay. 

Poetry Friday: VII by Wendell Berry

This ("Sabbaths, 2005, VII") is a beautiful one from Wendell Berry. 

It begins like this:

I know I am getting old and I say so,
but I don't think of myself as an old man.
I think of myself as a young man
with unforeseen debilities. 

and ends like this: 

...And you, who are as old
almost as I am, I love as I loved you
young, except that, old, I am astonished
at such a possibility, and am duly grateful.

And now you must go here to read the dozen or so lines between that exquisite beginning and that sublime ending. 

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Carol Varsalona has the Poetry Friday round-up today at Beyond LiteracyLink. 

(Image by Mirka at Pixabay.)