Christmas break is like that.
There's been a lot going on: the kids had a great time at the birthday party of a friend and had an equally great time at a church youth group party, which included going to see National Treasure 2. They went sledding with Atticus and built gingerbread houses with me.
And I've fit in a fair amount of reading (and will be back later with some notes on what I've read.)
But for now, I want to quickly address a little issue we homeschooling mothers sometimes struggle with:
Faith, at Dumb Ox Academy, got me thinking about this. Perhaps, a better phrase would be "masterly inactivity" (sounds a little nicer and more deliberate, doesn't it?)
We homeschooling moms are with our kids quite a bit. A lot. And that's a great thing. It's what allows us to pursue our vision of education, to grow closer to our kids, to share ideas and interests and fun.
But, it also sets us up, at times, for guilt. Because, when you're used to being with your kids all the time, you can start to feel a bit guilty if you're not with them, or if you're in the same house, but not fully "present" to them.
I maintain that a bit of masterly inactivity and benign neglect are a good thing.
As I said in a comment to Faith:
As homeschooling moms, we are with our children nearly *all* the time. It’s okay to take periods (like Christmas break) to be “selfish” because it isn’t really selfishness. It’s recharge time. And we need it.
As your kids have shown you, they’ll be fine!I tend to shoo my kids away fairly frequently during Christmas vacation, with a “Not now … I’m reading.”
Mothers need breaks, too. And, learning to entertain yourself without a plan, a schedule, or structure is a necessary life skill.
If you want, record it in your best education-ese on your list of homeschooling accomplishments for 2007:
"Children learned the value of independently chosen and executed pursuits."
Then lose the guilt.
It's Christmas break.
Now, go away.